If i marry a girl who has , is it inevitable that i will get it?

If you love her who cares. There are ways to not get this virus. Use protection. When you guys do decide to have kids then talk to your doc about what you can do. She can still have children naturally as long as she doesn't have any sores present at the time of birth. You might get it one day. I am not saying that you wont, but what i heard of Valtrex its a pretty good drug. Just dont have with her when she tell you she is about to get an outbreak or about a week after the outbreak is done